Eros`s understanding, or about the polarity of man and woman

Eros,
the god of love,
needs the two
to achieve the state of the one,
the new life.
The polarity of love
needs the polarity
of man and woman
to expand.
There are four principles
of the sexus in the human beeing,
when man and woman
come together
in the union of love:
The masculine in the man,
the feminine in the woman,
the non-masculine in man and
the non-feminine in the woman.
But
the non-masculine it is not the feminine:
it ist the absent masculine in man`s life
and
the non-feminine is not the masculine:
it is the absent feminine in woman`s life,
because the man is not the woman
and the woman is not the man.
If the man doesn`t live his manhood
he will induce the non-masculine
to increase in him and
to be the  determinant that rules his feelings and deeds:
he will not feel his potence,
his audacity,
his ambition
and he will be not able to pursue
his vision of happiness.
But
the non-masculine is the door for the man
to feel the feminine in the woman,
when man and woman joint together
in the union of their bodies.
The non-masculine ist the reversed masculine
not the feminine
and
it only achieves it`s wonderful  function in the man,
when it `s polarity works as a whole together with the masculine principle.
The non-feminine is the door for the woman to hear
the masculine principle in the man.
The non-feminine is the reversed feminine principle
not the masculine principle;
Living the feminine
counter-balances
the non-feminine principle in the woman,
giving real harmony to her life.
But living the non-feminine principle too much
makes the woman
not caring,
hard,
humourless
and deprived of devotion
she will not understand the masculine in the man.
So be masculine to harmonise  the non-masculine,
if you are a man
and be feminine to harmonise the non-feminine
if you are a woman.
Don`t try to play the nonpolar hermaphrodite.